My eight year old son has been asking to carry a knife. I have been wondering about knife safety and what it will take for me to let him carry a knife around.
When I think about it the knife has been a right of passage for little boys since the beginning of time. Banning pocket knives from school (as far as I know) is a very resent change to society. Banning them actually hurts our youth (in my opinion) because it deprives youth of learning opportunities that teach them responsibility and the consequences of action. Protecting people and kids from individuals that may decide to cut them with a knife is ludicrous because if they want to cut you they will bring a knife, permission or not.
Of course, I want my son to be safe. Therefore, I am going to set down some rules. This might not be the same method as our predecessors but when I think about it, my son is not going to be presented with the same “working” responsibilities as the youth or our predecessors.
My problem is that I do not have a good “knife learning skills” from my youth. Actually, I don’t even remember when I got my first pocket knife. I do, however, remember what was expected of me as a Marine. I was presented with very specific rules of weapon handling which were a requirement before I was permitted to enter a house with my platoon and a live weapon. These were the five rules of weapon handling I was responsible to know and demonstrate.
Rules of Weapon Handling
- Treat every weapon as loaded, even after you have ensured that it is unloaded.
- Never let your muzzle cover anything that you are not willing to destroy.
- Keep your finger off the trigger and outside the trigger guard until you are up on target and ready to shoot.
- Be sure of your target and consider the background.
Working off of these I have developed the rules of knife handling.
Rules of Knife Handling
- Treat all knives as sharp even if you know that it is not sharp.
- Never touch anything with your knife unless you want it to be cut.
- Keep your knife folded or in its sheath until you are ready to use it for cutting.
- Always cut away from yourself and other people.
- When handing a knife to another person point the blade and tip away from yourself and do not let go until they say “Thank you.”
Rules are rules, but action is action. I can talk about rules all day, but unless you have trained to understand how to implement the rules there will be no learning. To help with his understanding of the rules I have decided to specify one of his plastic knives as an “actual knife.” He will demonstrate the following with the plastic knife first. Once I am satisfied he will move to a real knife and demonstrate everything again. I am hoping to show him that it is important to learn the rules and then that it is important to remember the rules.
Knife Tasks
- Say, write, explain, and demonstrate all Knife Handling Rules.
- Use a knife to sharpen a pencil.
- Show how to sharpen a knife using a Spyderco Knife Sharpener.
Hopefully this works and provides the “real world” learning experience the youths of our past gained through actual implementation. Please let me know if you have any other tasks that might be helpful to learn these rules and promote knife handling skills.
Go forth and do good things,
Don C. Weber









